Sex and Affairs


No person or situation can come between you and your partner if you are emotionally and physically intimate. An affair is a sign that there is distance between you, and where there is distance then there is room for wandering and temptation.

This distance may result from a family trauma, or it may have grown slowly over time. Whatever the reason an affair is rarely the answer. More often it is a distraction and a way of keeping you trapped from taking your next step.


Many people believe that affairs destroy a relationship. It is also true that leaving the top off the toothpaste can end a relationship, but affairs have a special place in our minds. However, we believe relationships can survive anything – even affairs.

In this download we talk through the pitfalls that lead to affairs and emotional distance, and how relationships can still triumph after an affair.